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Happy 2018 (or at least happy New Year's Eve- let's hope we make it into 2018 lol)!!! How time flies, another year has gone by!
We always encourage you to start making positive changes in your life, but what better time to do it than now! A fresh start, a fresh year, a fresh way to instigate change. In the grand scheme of things, a new year doesn't really mean anything, but it does present a nice psychological place to start. To release 2017 and the past and to focus on what you want to create for the coming year is a great thing to do. All it takes is conscious commitment. And that's important because being aware is half the battle. If you're not even checking your feelings or beliefs you can't change them! And the thing is, it doesn't take any extra time as such, to change your mind round. It does require mental effort but it's not even like a physical exercise routine where you have to go to a gym etc. Instead, you can change where you stand for the positive, now! You can also start a mental exercise programme. Carve out time to focus on positive things- make a list of appreciation first thing in the morning, meditate, visualise your dream goals etc. An excellent way to start and/or end the day. Just commit to do something to get yourself in a better frame of mind. All is well!!! Happy new-ing!!! Lots of love, Nick Xxx EStore: http://www.nickfon.com/store/c1/Featured_Products.html EYLE-NL Group Link: http://www.meetup.com/EYLE-NL/ Coaching: http://www.eyle-nl.com/store/c1/Featured_Products.html_ Kristina's Coaching Group: http://www.meetup.com/London-Life-Coaching-and-Self-Empowerment-Meetup/ Nick's Law Of Attraction Group: http://www.meetup.com/Abraham-Nicks/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/EYLE_london Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Empower-Your-Life-Experience-Next-Level-260848260927460/
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Sometimes what people believe is best for you is not what is actually best for you!!! Xxx12/30/2017 I am really enjoying Pretty Little Things on Netflix- it's a high school murder mystery. One of the girls in the friendship groups goes missing and the series revolve around some peoples annoying the group of friends.
One of the couples were having a debate and one of them wisely said 'Sometimes what people believe is best for you is not what actually best for you.' And what a wonderfully true statement. Be it parents, children, society, teachers, bosses etc They think they may know what is best for you but they don't always! Only you know what is best for you. You need to work on listening and connecting with your inner self, your gut instinct and intuition. Everyone thinks they know what you should and it's certainly easier to judge from the outside but you gots to live your life for you! All is well!!! Happy pretty-ing!!! Lots of love, Nick Xxx EStore: http://www.nickfon.com/store/c1/Featured_Products.html EYLE-NL Group Link: http://www.meetup.com/EYLE-NL/ Coaching: http://www.eyle-nl.com/store/c1/Featured_Products.html_ Kristina's Coaching Group: http://www.meetup.com/London-Life-Coaching-and-Self-Empowerment-Meetup/ Nick's Law Of Attraction Group: http://www.meetup.com/Abraham-Nicks/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/EYLE_london Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Empower-Your-Life-Experience-Next-Level-260848260927460/ I really like the Aria hotel in Vegas. It's a little far to walk- I think it was the best part of a mile from my room to the place I wanted to get food! But I love the modern, fresh design of the whole hotel and the rooms are pretty high tech.
Anyhoo, I saw an online article which was a huge rampage of unappreciation for the Aria hotel! The author went on and on and on about how awful he thought the hotel was. Granted everyone has their own opinion on everything and not all things are to all people's tastes but the amount of energy it drains out of you to focus on what you don't like about a situation. Just reading the long list of complaints took it out of me! And what you focus on, you get more of. So we encourage you look for things you appreciate about something and keep rampaging about that. Then you'll get more good stuff! All is well!!! Happy Aria-ing!!! Lots of love, Nick Xxx EStore: http://www.nickfon.com/store/c1/Featured_Products.html EYLE-NL Group Link: http://www.meetup.com/EYLE-NL/ Coaching: http://www.eyle-nl.com/store/c1/Featured_Products.html_ Kristina's Coaching Group: http://www.meetup.com/London-Life-Coaching-and-Self-Empowerment-Meetup/ Nick's Law Of Attraction Group: http://www.meetup.com/Abraham-Nicks/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/EYLE_london Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Empower-Your-Life-Experience-Next-Level-260848260927460/ I was watching RuPaul's drag race and one of the contestants was clearly strong but they kept having emotional breakdowns as their insecurities got in the way. It probably would've got them kicked out as the doubt was really taking over!
Things completely changed when Ru advised him to get his act together and to transfer his strongest areas (which were really strong) to transfer to the areas which he was really weak. Ru's pep talk clearly worked miracles as he went onto win a challenge involving sewing- which was his weakest skill, especially as he was up against those who were experts in the field. So reflect on what you're good at, get the key essence of that and do your best to transfer it to areas that you feel weaker on. And see how you fly! All is well!!! Happy strength-ing!!! Lots of love, Nick Xxx EStore: http://www.nickfon.com/store/c1/Featured_Products.html EYLE-NL Group Link: http://www.meetup.com/EYLE-NL/ Coaching: http://www.eyle-nl.com/store/c1/Featured_Products.html_ Kristina's Coaching Group: http://www.meetup.com/London-Life-Coaching-and-Self-Empowerment-Meetup/ Nick's Law Of Attraction Group: http://www.meetup.com/Abraham-Nicks/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/EYLE_london Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Empower-Your-Life-Experience-Next-Level-260848260927460/ I saw Pete Tong and the Heritage Orchestra playing Ibiza classics at the O2 the other day. And it was pretty amazing! Some classic tunes reinterpreted with the help of a wonderful orchestra.
The place was heaving! Seats were full and the main arena was like a huge rave, jam packed with people raising their arms in dance. It was so euphoric, a vibe of Ecstasy (which I'm sure some of them must've been on lol) and the heat that emanated from the place was phenomenal! The collective power of a huge group of people focused on positive distraction was incredible. It's wonderful to come together with those who are like minded and focused on good things. It uplifts us all and the power of numbers is truly exponential. Get out and mix it up with other similar people. Share and learn- it's all so good! All is well!!! Happy Tong-ing!!! Lots of love, Nick Xxx EStore: http://www.nickfon.com/store/c1/Featured_Products.html EYLE-NL Group Link: http://www.meetup.com/EYLE-NL/ Coaching: http://www.eyle-nl.com/store/c1/Featured_Products.html_ Kristina's Coaching Group: http://www.meetup.com/London-Life-Coaching-and-Self-Empowerment-Meetup/ Nick's Law Of Attraction Group: http://www.meetup.com/Abraham-Nicks/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/EYLE_london Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Empower-Your-Life-Experience-Next-Level-260848260927460/ Apparently, part of the tradition of Boxing Day back in ye olden days was that the servants were given a day off and a box with some treats.
There is something magical and hopefully good feeling about giving things away. Ideally, it would ideally come from a place of abundance and so you have so much to share, you can give to others too! But that doesn't have to mean that you have to give away extravagant gifts! You can give away a smile, a compliment, a simple kind word, anything that brings you out of yourself and connects you to someone else. You do it because you are abundant in positivity and not for the response you hope to elicit from someone else. That's very important to note- how anyone reacts to you is irrelevant! It's how you feel that means everything. All is well!!! Happy box-ing!!! Lots of love, Nick Xxx EStore: http://www.nickfon.com/store/c1/Featured_Products.html EYLE-NL Group Link: http://www.meetup.com/EYLE-NL/ Coaching: http://www.eyle-nl.com/store/c1/Featured_Products.html_ Kristina's Coaching Group: http://www.meetup.com/London-Life-Coaching-and-Self-Empowerment-Meetup/ Nick's Law Of Attraction Group: http://www.meetup.com/Abraham-Nicks/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/EYLE_london Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Empower-Your-Life-Experience-Next-Level-260848260927460/ Merry Xmas dear ones! I hope you're well! Christmas can be an interesting time for us all. It can either be really social and full of love with loved ones, it can be an irritating time with those we are suppose to love or it can be a lonely time if we are 'alone.'
But not to fear! Source loves you unconditionally and always no matter what. And it's in your loneliest times that it's calling for you even strongly. That's why feeling bad feels so bad, because you're focused on something in a way that that inner being isn't. It knows you're love and loved, that there's nothing you can do that's bad and that you're perfect exactly as you are! Take sometime to connect with you, take care of you, buy some Christmas presents for you! Some time to meditate, watch a movie, whatever fills your soul with joy. Make an extra special effort to take care of you! All is well!!! Happy Christmas-ing!!! Lots of love, Nick Xxx EStore: http://www.nickfon.com/store/c1/Featured_Products.html EYLE-NL Group Link: http://www.meetup.com/EYLE-NL/ Coaching: http://www.eyle-nl.com/store/c1/Featured_Products.html_ Kristina's Coaching Group: http://www.meetup.com/London-Life-Coaching-and-Self-Empowerment-Meetup/ Nick's Law Of Attraction Group: http://www.meetup.com/Abraham-Nicks/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/EYLE_london Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Empower-Your-Life-Experience-Next-Level-260848260927460/ Whilst everyone who goes to enter a competition usually wants to come first, you really can focus on what you win in every situation!
One compelling thing about those reality TV competitions is the journey of growth you see in the participants. Some of them really exceed their expectations of what they can accomplish and they are all the better for it. The challenges set and their learning curve is insane, especially when you realise how much they actually have to do in the hours and days that they are given to complete each task. It's easy to sit at home and judge them and think you'd do a better job but I'm pretty certain it's a lot harder than it appears on the television! It's the mixing it up and the powerful focus that these things draw through the contestants that is phenomenal. And a number of people who didn't come win their competitions still went on to outdo those who came first! All is well!!! Happy compete-ing!!! Lots of love, Nick Xxx EStore: http://www.nickfon.com/store/c1/Featured_Products.html EYLE-NL Group Link: http://www.meetup.com/EYLE-NL/ Coaching: http://www.eyle-nl.com/store/c1/Featured_Products.html_ Kristina's Coaching Group: http://www.meetup.com/London-Life-Coaching-and-Self-Empowerment-Meetup/ Nick's Law Of Attraction Group: http://www.meetup.com/Abraham-Nicks/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/EYLE_london Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Empower-Your-Life-Experience-Next-Level-260848260927460/ Contrast does not always or even usually feel good, especially when you're going through it. But, if you can realise and reassure yourself that when you've cleared it, what's waiting for you on the other side is so much better, that's a nice feeling thought!
What you can take comfort in, is that whilst you're in the uncomfortableness of things not going your way, is that you're vibrationally asking for more goodness. And once you've cleared the contrast then you can start to allow your goodies in. Just let the momentum ride out and reach for calm as soon as you can. That's what's most important. Don't try to fix everything in the middle of the rubbish, it's probably going to be too much. Meditation, affirmations, groups, friends, anything positive can help alleviate the stress. Have as many tools as you can! All is well!!! Happy contrast-ing!!! Lots of love, Nick Xxx EStore: http://www.nickfon.com/store/c1/Featured_Products.html EYLE-NL Group Link: http://www.meetup.com/EYLE-NL/ Coaching: http://www.eyle-nl.com/store/c1/Featured_Products.html_ Kristina's Coaching Group: http://www.meetup.com/London-Life-Coaching-and-Self-Empowerment-Meetup/ Nick's Law Of Attraction Group: http://www.meetup.com/Abraham-Nicks/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/EYLE_london Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Empower-Your-Life-Experience-Next-Level-260848260927460/ As the dark days and nights and freezing cold starts to kick in, it's time to reflect and relax and take stock of all your glorious achievements this year. Of which, I know there are many!
It's very easy to get swept into the Christmas and madness as we begin to wrap up the year (and our gifts!), but be sure to take time to appreciate how far you've come, all the things you've tried, the things you've learned and all the amazingness that has occurred. There has been a lot going on for me- trips, shows, moving, the contrast, the things to work on, the groups, the connections, the releasing and of course the learning. It's as simple as writing a list of appreciation for this year- one of our most encouraged practises for raising the vibration. So do it! Take some time to write down and feel gratitude for the months that have been before and you can also start to pre pave next year! All is well!!! Happy year-ing!!! Lots of love, Nick Xxx EStore: http://www.nickfon.com/store/c1/Featured_Products.html EYLE-NL Group Link: http://www.meetup.com/EYLE-NL/ Coaching: http://www.eyle-nl.com/store/c1/Featured_Products.html_ Kristina's Coaching Group: http://www.meetup.com/London-Life-Coaching-and-Self-Empowerment-Meetup/ Nick's Law Of Attraction Group: http://www.meetup.com/Abraham-Nicks/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/EYLE_london Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Empower-Your-Life-Experience-Next-Level-260848260927460/ |
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